Fetish & Flow / San Juan, PR / October 23-26th
- Chad Putman
- Jul 31
- 2 min read
Updated: 1 day ago
Update: Last Chance - Fire House Rooms Available...
With less than a month until Fetish & Flow, here is your last chance to secure a room on the Coqui del Mar property. Rob, the owner has been gracious enough to open up three beautiful rooms at the Fire House, his newest property, which is adjacent to Coqui del Mar. You will have all the access you need to Fetish & Flow, plus the perks of staying at the Fire House which include a beautiful pool, sun deck and outdoor shower.
Text (518) 225-0957 or email (chadputman1@gmail.com) me asap to get a room before they are gone! - Chad Putman
Have you ever wanted to explore your kink in a space that feels safe, sexy, and fully supportive? Whether you’re kink-curious or ready to level up your play, Fetish & Flow is your invitation to dive deep into pleasure and connection.
Fetish & Flow is a 3-night, 4-day retreat blending kink-positive workshops with breathwork, movement, and sensual embodiment. Guided by experienced facilitators, you’ll explore everything from bondage to breathwork, meditation to erotic play, all within a respectful and adventurous space.
Each experience is designed to awaken your senses, connect you to your body, and create space for you to express your most authentic, erotic self.

What to expect? A sensual and structured retreat featuring:
Daily yoga, breathwork, and pleasure practices
Kundalini activation and embodiment rituals
Guided kink and fantasy exploration
Erotic bodywork, sacred temple play, and movement
Optional afternoon excursions to beaches, rainforest, and historic San Juan
All activities are guided by experienced facilitators in a judgment-free, sex-positive space.
Who is Fetish & Flow for? This retreat welcomes:
Gay, bi, queer, MSM, and trans men (21+)
Individuals and couples of all experience levels
Curious beginners or experienced kinksters
Anyone seeking authentic connection, erotic expression, and self-discovery
We foster an environment that is consent-based, inclusive, body-positive, and celebrates diversity in race, age, size, and desire.
Hosted by Justin Rockett & Chad Putman

Location: Coqui del Mar, San Juan, Puerto Rico: Stay in not just a gay hotel (aka Guesthouse), but the gayest in San Juan, Puerto Rico (or the Caribbean for that matter). We are gay-owned and managed. We welcome all LGBTQIA. Our goal is to make you feel at home. You are safe. You are welcome. And you can relax and enjoy your vacation in our gay clothing optional Puerto Rican resort hotel the way you would like to.
An adults-only, clothing-optional, LGBTQ+ guesthouse offering:
A sex-positive, welcoming environment
Plunge pool, jacuzzi, and tropical communal spaces
Friendly staff and curated experiences
Easy access to the beach and local queer scene
Cost & Booking:
Retreat Fee: $200 per person
Lodging: Book directly with Coqui del Mar at standard nightly rates
Included Meals: Thursday dinner, Friday/Saturday brunch, Sunday brunch
*Not Included: Flights, airport transfers, additional meals, optional excursions, massage services, fetish gear (however, you encouraged to bring your own gear—leather, lace, jocks, socks, pup hoods, floggers, whatever makes you feel alive and empowered).

Got questions? Don't wait, the number or rooms are limited...
Text Chad at 518-225-0957 or email chadputman1@gmail.com for more information.
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