Welcome to your Opportunity.
Most people want change... but avoid the opportunities that actually create it.
What I have witnessed and experienced first hand is this: Real transformation happens when we get outside our comfort zone, lean into our intuition and do the thing that scares us the most.
A Transformational Breathwork Retreat & Queer Communal Living Experience:
Queer Escape & Reboot August 17-24th at Terra Rosa & Sitges, Spain.
Be the change you want to see in the world!
Room to Breathe
A Queer Escape and Reboot: Experience the power of breathwork and queer communal living at Terra Rosa & Sitges, Spain August 17-24, 2026.
Join me for a transformational breathwork retreat in the hills outside of Barcelona, overlooking the Mediterranean at Terra Rosa. Then spend a restful, recharging weekend at our private villa in Sitges where you can enjoy one of the best queer beaches in the world.
A life well lived...
At Make Your It Happen, Concierge and Boutique Wellness Care is rooted in the belief that true support goes beyond task management—it’s about being deeply seen, understood, and cared for as a whole person. Drawing from a unique blend of professional social work training, intuitive empathy, emotional intelligence, and sacred intimacy practices, these services are designed for individuals seeking meaningful connection, grounded support, and authentic human presence in a world that often feels disconnected. This is care that honors the emotional, relational, physical, and spiritual aspects of being human.
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A grounded, caring presence to help you feel seen, supported and understood.
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Heart-centered companionship rooted in empathy, trust, and authentic connection.
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Personalized emotional, practical and intimacy support for every stage of life.
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Gentle guidance and nurturing presence for healing, confidence, and self-discovery.
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Meaningful Connection that honors your story, your needs and your humanit.
Chosen Family Wellness Services:
From out-and-about adventures and lifestyle support to heart-centered listening and legacy exploration, this work creates space for clients to reconnect with themselves, their bodies, their stories, and the life they want to continue living. Make Your It Happen offers a deeply personalized approach to wellness and companionship—where practical support meets emotional presence, and where care is experienced not as a service, but as genuine connection.
What I do?
I am here to shine a light to reflect the truth, you are complete.
How I do it?
Presence, intimacy and trust
How did I get here?
Through my own practice of love, abandon and turning my greatest darkness (challenges) into my brightest light.
I am a mountain, a river, a bird and a ray of light that beats like a song. I am alive and complete.
Book your free discovery session by email: chadputman1@gmail.com
Text @ (518) 225-0957
Breathwork Workshop Reviews
Eyes Wide Open was a workshop I hosted on Saturday, August 30 at 8pm at the Ybor Restore Yoga Studio in Tampa. Attendees experienced the power of ecstatic movement, breathwork and guided meditation. Breathwork has been a power force in my life and I love to share the gift of breath and presence with others. Our bodies do so much for us. Ecstatic movement and guided meditation is a power way to drop into our bodies, and re-experience what it means to be alive, at peace and one with all.
"I attended Chad's guided meditation and breathwork class at Ybor Restore Yoga Studio and it was a completely different experience from any meditation I've tried before. I've always struggled to quiet my mind, but Chad's guidance and breathwork made nearly two hours [ass with ease. The smaller class setting felt open and nonjudgmental, and I left with a sense of clarity I hadn't been able to find on my own. I'm grateful for the experience. Thank you Chad! Highly recommended!" - Rick
"It was amazing! I left very in tune with my body, my breath, and my goals." - Ralph
“Your class was inspirational and taught me breathing techniques (like fire breathing) that I had never heard of before! I'd like to learn more ways to incorporate breathwork into my daily life as a way to cope with stress and anxiety. Thanks for the introduction to this method of stress relief, and I hope to attend more classes in the future!"
- Christopher
“I had the opportunity to attend the meditation and breath work class with Chad the other evening. During the class, I was able to get in touch with emotions and see the hope that I hold within myself. The breathwork allowed me to focus on the energy inside of me and the control I can have when I focus, and the meditation allowed me to release the tensions and fears within me as I relaxed and just “was”. Thank you Chad - Dave
Pleasure Workshop Reviews
What is Pleasure practice? A workshop for men who enjoy their own intimate pleasure and engaging with other men to experience personal, shared and group pleasure. The workshop is intended for gay, bi and MSM cisgender males who are curious, open-minded and desire to step outside their comfort zone in order to invite more pleasure into their lives.
"He provided great instruction and made you feel able to relax and enjoy the pleasures of yourself and others which allowed you to connect with your inner-self and with complete strangers. It was a new but positive experience."
Chad’s workshop... provided some “me” time.
“This workshop helped me step out of my comfort zone. Participating allowed me to let go of the old me and over come some fears. I was comfortable in my own skin for a change and didn’t feel like I was being judged. I felt relaxed and experienced true intimacy with my fellows. Thanks, Chad!"
"It was a beautiful and intimate experience with an intensely erotic pleasure in a safe space. Chad led an extraordinary workshop. My thanks for being inclusive. "
“Chad made it easy to be totally relaxed and present for the entire, tantalizing, healing workshop!”